I used to count all of the things
that I didn’t do as positive traits of mine
I never swore I never got drunk
I never did this I never did that
never never never
but recently I’ve realized that
priding myself in my nothings
made me feel pretty
hollow
I am so much more
than what I am not
I should be proud
of the things that I am brave
enough to see and do
and that should speak for itself